Episodes (61)

Learn why families should start planning for adult care at age 14 and how to use a medical resume to simplify complex histories. The episode also breaks down the legal shift at 18 and the importance of Supported Decision-Making over guardianship.

Explore the staggering gap between disability prevalence and workplace disclosure while learning how to shift from medical talk to functional talk. This episode breaks down the ADA's interactive process and provides strategies for collaborating with employers to secure necessary accommodations.

Harper Bennett joins the conversation to explore the nuances of disabled dating, from the strategy of disclosure to the systemic barriers of the SSI marriage penalty. The team discusses navigating desirability and the critical boundary between autonomy-respecting support and intrusive help.

Explore the concept of sensory stacking and why modern urban environments are often overwhelming for the neurodivergent community. Our experts discuss how the eight senses are reshaping everything from big-box retail hours to the architecture of public plazas.

Ruby Sturt explores the "glass child" experience, discussing the emotional weight of being the "easy" sibling in families with high support needs. The panel examines how to dismantle the caregiving inheritance and reclaim authentic sibling bonds by looking beyond systemic failures.

Explore how to move past the "fix-it" reflex to practice deep, active listening in neurodivergent households. This episode discusses decoding non-verbal cues and using reflective language to build emotional resilience and self-worth.

Explore the psychological phenomenon of the shadow parent and the crushing weight of invisible mental labor in caregiving. This episode examines the concept of allostatic load and how small, focused anchors can help restore a sense of self.

Explore the radical shift from the medical model to the social model of disability and why accessibility is a fundamental human right rather than a favor. The team discusses the origins of the Nothing About Us Without Us movement and how concepts like crip time redefine our relationship with space and productivity.

Explore the cutting-edge tools reshaping independence, from smart glasses that interpret visual scenes to AI apps that break down complex tasks for neurodivergent users. The team also examines the tension between technological hype and the real-world barriers of cost and funding.

Learn how to navigate the complex world of special education meetings by shifting from a "Hearts" mindset to a strategic "Poker" approach. We explore essential tactics like the 48-hour draft request, the power of a Parent Vision Statement, and how to use Prior Written Notice to ensure accountability.

This episode explores how being labeled “strong” can hide burnout, depression, and anxiety in caregivers and disabled people, and why coping skills can’t replace real support. It also examines the maze of mental health access, from long wait times and referral barriers to the need for integrated, load-bearing care.

Families often wait until a crisis to sort out care, paperwork, and money—but the episode shows why planning earlier protects both autonomy and support. It breaks down key tools like powers of attorney, guardianship, special needs trusts, and ABLE accounts, with a focus on avoiding benefit pitfalls and building a plan that can actually work on Monday.

This episode breaks down the UK disability benefits maze, from PIP and Attendance Allowance to Adult Disability Payment and Universal Credit, and explains why age, location, and existing support matter so much. It also unpacks how decision-makers focus on function and daily living needs rather than diagnosis alone, with a clear look at PIP points, descriptors, and what really counts as evidence.

Dive into the emotional journey of siblings with special needs brothers or sisters, exploring feelings, support, and resilience. Learn practical strategies for open communication, self-care, and the power of peer connections to foster empathy and strength within families.

Dive into the unique experiences of siblings of children with special needs and discover practical ways families can nurture their emotional well-being. Explore strategies for open communication, shared activities, and building resilience that celebrate every child's role and achievements within the family.

Dive into the hidden challenges caregivers face and learn practical strategies to recognize burnout, build support, and prioritize self-care. Discover powerful stories and tips to create a sustainable caregiving routine while maintaining mental and physical wellness.

Journey through the essential steps of transitioning from child-focused to adult disability services. Discover practical tips on planning, advocacy, and building supportive networks for lasting independence and success.

Discover essential strategies for helping siblings navigate the emotions and challenges following a new diagnosis in the family. From breaking the news with care to fostering empathy and long-term connection, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt stories to strengthen family bonds.

Discover why the myth of self-sacrifice harms caregivers and learn realistic self-care strategies to maintain your well-being. Hear personal stories and practical tips on building support, setting boundaries, and sustaining your care over the long term.

Explore the complex emotions behind parenting—from grief and guilt to fear—and learn how self-compassion, vulnerability, and practical self-care strategies can build emotional resilience. Hear personal stories and actionable tips that help parents accept their journey beyond perfection.

Explore how media and society often misrepresent disability with personal stories and community shifts from charity to pride. Discover the impact of language choices and learn how changing narratives transform everyday experiences and identities.

Dive into the strategies that drive real change in disability rights. Explore coalition-building, public awareness, and the power of lived experience. Harper and Eric unpack the tools and stories behind effective advocacy.

Dive into what mental health truly means beyond illness, exploring practical frameworks like the 5 Ps and 5 Cs that support resilience. Learn everyday habits and when to seek help, as we celebrate strengths that empower thriving beyond labels.